Strategy. Sanctuary. Self-Reclamation.
Coaching + Strategy for clarity, emotional regulation, and self-reclamation through divorce, separation, or major life events
You’re Not Crazy. You’re Exhausted from Surviving Chaos.
If you’ve been...
Walking on eggshells, managing someone else’s moods, and trying to keep the peace.
Told you’re too emotional, too reactive, or that you “should be over it by now”.
Out of the relationship — but not free from the anxiety, overthinking, or self-doubt.
Stuck in limbo, unsure what to do next in your divorce or how to make the right decisions.
Overwhelmed by lawyers, finances, or parenting schedules and too tired to think straight.
Second-guessing yourself so much you’ve stopped trusting your own judgment.
Feeling like you have to hold it all together while quietly falling apart.
Then you’re in the right place.
You’re not broken; you’re depleted from doing this alone.
You’re healing from emotional warfare while trying to rebuild your life.
And that kind of rebuilding takes more than time.
It takes strategy to organize the chaos, safety to calm your body, and self-trust to lead yourself forward.
Meet Laila — The Split Coach
Certified Divorce Coach® | Amicable & Holistic Amicable Coach® | Accredited Mediator
I help people rebuild after divorce, toxic relationships, and emotional upheaval.
My approach blends strategy, nervous-system regulation, and communication mastery, because real change happens when your mind and body are finally on the same team.
After navigating my own decade-long divorce, I turned my breakdown into my blueprint.
Now I help others rise from the same ashes, with clarity, calm, and power.
What It Feels Like to Work With Me
Before:
You’re stuck in fight-or-flight, exhausted by decisions, conversations, and conflict. You overanalyze every message, doubt your instincts, and can’t seem to move forward.
After:
You know how to respond instead of react.
You communicate with confidence and precision.
You make choices aligned with your peace, not your panic.
You feel grounded, clear, and capable — even when life is still messy.
“I don’t know what I would have done during my divorce if I didn’t have access to Laila between sessions. Her texts got me through my bouts of doubt.”
“I didn’t just survive my divorce — I found my power again.”
This is strategy meets self-regulation — tools for your mind, calm for your body, and a plan for your life.
Ways to work together
Strategic Support Retainer
Your lifeline of clarity and calm during chaos.
Three private sessions per month + between-call text support for real-time guidance.
Divorce Bootcamp,
6-Month Intensive
Full access. Full transformation.
Personalized coaching, emotional regulation, and accountability to rebuild your foundation and reclaim your peace.
4-Session Coaching Package
Full access. Full transformation.
Personalized coaching, emotional regulation, and accountability to rebuild your foundation and reclaim your peace.
InnerAlchemy™ Circles
A 3-month guided group experience for women rebuilding from the inside out.
Teaching, embodiment, and integration, all in a safe circle of support.
Split.fyi Community
Your extended village for education and connection.
Work with professionals at weekly live events, professional Q&As, and a private support network through every stage of divorce.
A NOTE FROM LAILA
WHY I DO THIS WORK
Becoming The Split Coach wasn’t a career move; it was a calling born from my own experience.
I know what it feels like when your world spins out of control, and you’re expected to hold it all together anyway.
When you’re trying to make clear decisions amid heartbreak, fear, and confusion, it can feel impossible.
During my own divorce, I had family and friends who loved me deeply, but what I didn’t have was a thinking partner.
Someone who could keep me grounded, help me make sense of the chaos, and remind me of who I was when I started to lose sight of myself.
So I became that for others: a strategist, a truth-teller, and a calm, steady partner through the hardest transitions of their lives.
If you take one thing away from me, let it be this: don’t do it alone.
You only get one chance to make some of the most important decisions of your life, and having the right support can change everything.
IF YOU NEED SUPPORT ASAP
If you are ready to take the next step in your divorce process with someone who will walk the path with you then you can book a 90-minute strategy session with Laila.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO HAVE IT ALL FIGURED OUT.
You just need space to breathe, a plan that makes sense, and someone in your corner while you find your way through.
We’ll take it one clear, strategic step at a time, until peace starts to feel possible again.